Background
Father
of the Bride (1950) is a satirical comedy of the travails and
joys of a harrassed father experiencing his only daughter's expensive
wedding. He was put through a series of challenges: financial,
social, and emotional. The film was quickly made by director Vincente
Minnelli while he was preparing production for his next film: An
American in Paris (1951).
The film's screenplay by Frances Goodrich and Albert
Hackett was adapted from Edward Streeter's 1949 novel. It was one
of the highest-grossing films of its year - earning over $6 million
(worldwide). It made a substantial profit for the studio of almost
$3 million.
Its tagline was an apt description of the father's
dilemma:
The Bride gets the THRILLS! Father gets the BILLS!
The small-scale father-daughter family comedy was
nominated for three Academy Awards, including Best Picture, Best
Actor (Spencer Tracy), and Best Original Screenplay, with no wins.
The witty and contrived story was told in flashback,
regarding the preparations of an idealized young bride (17 year-old
Elizabeth Taylor, who would go on to experience many weddings in
her own personal life), and the repercussions, problems, and responsibilities
involved in marrying off a daughter by the "father of the bride."
Many of the sequences and vignettes were highly typical
and familiar for audiences: the young daughter's casual announcement
of her engagement and marriage plans during a quiet family dinner,
the mixed emotions of losing a "baby girl," the heart-to-heart talk
with the bridegroom, the meeting with the in-laws, the machinations
of the wedding planners, discussions regarding the honeymoon, and
the overall expense of the venture.
The 1950s breadwinning 'father of the bride' Stanley
(Spencer Tracy) presided over a domestic suburban setting, including
his wife Ellie Banks (Joan Bennett in her first film for MGM), his
always-hungry teenaged son Tommy (Russ Tamblyn), collegiate-aged
Ben (Tom Irish), and their eldest "only daughter" - 20
year-old sister Kay (nicknamed
"Kitten"), a charming and beautiful young girl. Her betrothed
was 26 year-old Buckley Dunstan (Don Taylor), whose bloodline she
gushed over when she first announced their engagement and future
marriage:
"And as for his parents, I'll tell you this right
now, Pops. They're just as good as you and Moms. They're fine people,
and they live in Westbridge. I guess you'll agree that Westbridge
is just as good a place as Fairview Manor."
The beloved MGM comedy was followed by a sequel, Father's
Little Dividend (1951), also directed by Minnelli and starring
Tracy and Taylor - a tale that now showed Stanley suffering from
the birth of his daughter's first child during the couple's first
year of marriage. From 1961-1962, a short-lived TV series featured
Ruth Warwick, Myrna Fahey and Leon Ames (in Tracy's role).
It was unnecessarily
modernized as Father
of the Bride (1991),
starring Steve Martin as the beleaguered father George Banks, with
Diane Keaton as his wife Nina, and Kimberly Williams as daughter
Annie. [Note: There was also a
sequel: Father of the Bride Part II (1995).]
Plot Synopsis
The satirical film of the rites of matrimony opens
with a memorable scene. Well-to-do, hapless, disgruntled lawyer Stanley
T. Banks or "Pops" (Spencer Tracy), collapsed and exhausted in an
arm-chair, looks back on the wedding he has just lived through, sitting
amidst a pile of left-over debris from the reception in his suburban
home, surveying the wreckage. He tells the audience:
I would like to say a few words about weddings. I've
just been through one. Not my own, my daughter's. Someday in the
far future, I may be able to remember it with tender indulgence,
but not now. I always used to think that marriage was a simple
affair. Boy and girl meet, they fall in love, get married, they
have babies. Eventually the babies grow up, meet other babies,
and they fall in love and get married, and so on and on and on.
Looked at that way, it's not only simple, it's downright monotonous.
But I was wrong. I figured without the wedding.
Now you fathers will understand. You have a little girl. She looks
up to you. You're her oracle. You're her hero. And then the day comes
when she gets her first permanent wave and goes to her first real party,
and from that day on, you're in a constant state of panic. If the boys
swarm around, you're in a panic for fear she'll marry one of them.
If they don't swarm around, why, of course you're in another kind of
a panic, and you wonder what's the matter with her. So you don't worry
about it. You say to yourself, 'I've got plenty of time to worry
about that. I'll just put off thinking about it.' And then
suddenly it is upon you. It was just three months ago, exactly three
months ago, that the storm broke here.
It was an ordinary day, very much like any other day. I had caught
the commuters' train home, as usual. It was late, as usual....
Exasperated but in a low-key tone, he tells the story
of his beautiful daughter Kay's (Elizabeth Taylor) casual announcement
of her engagement and all the ceremonial requirements and events
leading up to the wedding over a period of three months.
There are many memorable scenes, including:
- Stanley's first realization that his 'little girl'
Kay is soon to be leaving in anticipation of her marriage to her
fiancee, Buckley Dunstan (Don Taylor): "All I could think
of was a little girl in brown pigtails and dirty overalls, flying
at the boys when they pushed her too far. Seems like such an incredibly
short time ago."
- Stanley reveals his curious desire to "get
a peek at this Superman" from the front window of his home
- he experiences his first view of Kay's suitor - and has a pained
reaction!
- in the middle of the night, Stanley frantically
worries to his wife Ellie (Joan Bennett) about Kay's choice of
a fiancee: "We don't know a thing about him. Not a darn thing.
Not where he comes from, what he makes, or what he makes making
it. Only thing we know about him is his name, and you weren't too
sure about that. Yet he walks in, and we hand him Kay....I want
to know whether he's going to make her happy. Whether he's going
to make a home for her, can he support her?"
- Stanley's desire is to follow through on all that
"old-fashioned rigmarole" including the lengthy "man-to-man" talk
(a fireside "little chat") he has with Buckley about his financial
prospects (three months before the nuptials), to determine if he
can suitably support Kay; the interview is interminably long and
boring
- during the required meeting of the Banks to get
to know the wealthy in-laws the Dunstans, Stanley and Ellie meet
with Herbert or "Herbie" (Moroni Olsen) and Doris Dunstan
(Billie Burke), who live in much more than a "shack";
Stanley admits (in voice-over) about the meeting: "We did
more bare-faced lying in those few minutes than we had done in
our entire lives";
the get-together in the Dunstan's living room ends when Stanley
drinks too much Madeira (fortified wine from Portugal) and falls
asleep upright on the couch in the midst of the discussion
- in the scene of the Banks' party to announce the
engagement (the guests routinely decline Stanley's pre-prepared
martinis and order many other varieties of drinks), Stanley finds
himself confined to the kitchen and is unable to deliver his prepared
speech; he is advised about finances and his place in the proceedings:
"Enjoy your minute in the limelight. It'll be your last.
From now on the gals take over...When it comes to weddings, they're
giants of industry. They put it on like a big theatrical production,
too. The bigger the better. From now on, your only function is
to pay the bills"; Stanley disagrees: "No, no, this
is going to be a very simple wedding," although he is soon
proven wrong
- the decision of both families is that the wedding
and reception would be small; however, when a church wedding is
suggested, Stanley vehemently objects: "If you insist upon
a church wedding, you can count me out"; Stanley becomes exasperated
about how everyone else is spending his money: "Bridesmaids
and churches and automobiles and flowers and heaven knows what...If
her friends want to go out and bankrupt themselves, that's their
business, not mine, but we've always lived very simply, within
our means. Now here, what are we gonna do? Put on a big show, a
big flashy show that we can't afford?"; he soon realizes he
will lose the battle for a small wedding: "From then on, I
was a dead duck"
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